I have been married for over 10 years now and I feel that my husband has either lost interest in me or is taking our relationship for granted. I have tried to communicate that to him, and it seems to just be another argument of my over dramatizing. I feel like I can’t win. Do you have any suggestions?
Park Slope, Brooklyn
I want you to go back and remember the first time you met your husband, and by that I want you to think about your first date, your first kiss, and even your wedding — one of those magical moments where you both had a great time. Men are visual, so wear something pretty every time you go out of the house, even if it’s just to the grocery store. Then for the next 30 days, write one thing that you absolutely love about your husband. Things will change by themselves, I promise. I want to hear about your success.
All for the best,